Living with SELF…

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“”Human self-reflection is the capacity of humans to exercise introspection and the willingness to learn more about their fundamental nature, purpose and essence. The earliest historical records demonstrate the great interest which humanity has had in itself. Human self-reflection invariably leads to inquiry into the human condition and the essence of humankind as a whole.

Human self-reflection is related to the philosophy of consciousness, the topic of awareness, consciousness in general and the philosophy of mind…”

WHAT ABOUT TALKING ABOUT OWN SELF AS “HIM/HER/THEM” … ?

WHAT ABOUT THE IDEA OF A “GROUP OF PERSONALITIES” THAT LIVE WITH?…

self-reflection-steven-michaelInstead of being just one single person living in a body,

we are always talking about our other sides according in situtions that we have to handle….

We generally have two main faces: one with heart and one with brain; which describes our emotional side -emotional reactions- and our logical point of  view -mental bottom lines-.

Furthermore,

we have always an explanation for both ways…

But how we build up our definitions on ourselves?

or

why we need to define different personalities of ourselves?

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Answer is simple: we live against our ownselves, with no inner acceptance of being “me”.

and

we need someone to blame accordingly…

Knowing the possible choices, remembering the past, paying still our old bills, never forgetting or forgiving our own mistakes…

Also a “self-proving” that we are alone in the world – especially if we had a bad childhood under the name of “having no friends”-…

Admit that you talk to yourself when you are alone in your car or house or even walking in a park.

You keep track of what you are always doing or thinking.

Sometimes you are not  good enough to listen to your own thoughts and wishes, so you start to talk to God.

ADMIT IT.

THAT’S BEING HUMAN.

NOT WANTING TO WALK ALONE…

That need of yours empowers your self realization, awareness and explanations.

And you know so perfectly that you are the cruelest judge of the world; you don’t accept any defense or apology.

BUT PLEASE GET USED TO LIVE WITH YOURSELF BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE TO ENJOY.

matc3adas-sierra-hug-my-self-red-clay-10All actions belong to you. All feelings and wishes came from your heart. All your past gave you an unique lesson, you failed or succeeded. If you feel failed TRY AGAIN.

NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF.

AND…

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PLEASE DO NOT LET “BEING AWARE OF YOURSELF” LEAVE YOU ALONE.

The Mirror of Pride has a blinding Light

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Pride is the trap within which One may lose everything.

Overestimation of one’s self may reduce the grand beauties of one’s great world…

So unfortunate that vanity becomes the deep prison within us…entrapped in a prison made of the bars of shades that one has drawn…  

Exagerating life events somehow shapes one’s own agony, unintentionally;

Exagerating one’s self importance and missing happiness in the tiny details is the blinding of one’s self and it is so devastating.

 

One is one’s own dangerous and life-long enemy.

The scores of one’s life races and losses are the ink spots which had leaked from one’s fingers.

That ink which comes into being within the veins of pride, flows down one’s skin and will never be cleansed with water and soap unless one cannot raise his consciousness and heal his soul.

 

Pride breeds egoism. The soul in search of love will then be buried into absolute solitude in time. Loneliness follows in silence; the eyes will search for others to blame among the emotionally crowded isolation.

To be able to love someone, some people assume that it is necessary to give up on one’s self; conversely, the aim is not to dispense with one’s self, Master, it is to add up to one’s self!